Adapted from the Conversation Covenant of the Episcopal Seminary of the Southwest, this agreement guides WELCM students and staff in building and maintaining an authentic Christian community, especially when discussing difficult topics or resolving conflicts.

We start from the premise that only God knows everything.

We start from the premise that all people are God’s people,

and that God’s love is toward everyone.

WELCM is a worshipping community, which engages inquiry and interpretation: inquiry into the mystery of God in Jesus Christ and interpretation, in both action and reflection, of God’s creative and redemptive love. Open and trustful conversation is an essential part of our learning, growth, and community-building. Often, though, we are led into difficult conversations as we bring the length and breadth of our assumptions, opinions, and certainties into the formative power of Christian faith. Avoiding the issues around which passion and disagreement reside might well be an easier path, but commitment to remaining in conversation with one another despite our differences is part of our calling as disciples of Jesus Christ.

We hereby set our intention together to participate in conversation without dominating, gossiping, judging, interrupting, or giving advice. In order to mark both our commitment to conversation and our recognition of the challenges, we affirm …

  • that we are all made in the image of God and must, therefore, treat one another with respect and dignity;

  • that we are free to explore different ideas and beliefs as well as to grow and change theologically;

  • that we share a common sinfulness and, therefore, will understand only partially and be mistaken frequently;

  • that we do not have to agree in order to love one another;

  • that our conversations, even our most passionate disagreements, take place in the Spirit, whom we seek not to grieve.

And we strive…

  • to approach conversation with a willingness to listen and learn, acknowledging the value of opposing views;

  • to treat one another as honest inquirers, attempting to discern God’s truth in a complex world;

  • to engage ideas without attacking or dismissing those who hold them;

  • to acknowledge the limited perspective of our own experience and opinions, and be open to the possibility of our views changing;

  • to consider the possibility that we might be mistaken, secure in the knowledge of the love and forgiveness we have all received in Christ;

  • to challenge one another while seeking not to give offense;

  • to consider challenges from others while striving not to take offense too readily;

  • to serve reconciliation by sharing when we have been offended;

  • to acknowledge stereotypes, ask for clarification in order to avoid misunderstandings, and make room for complexity.



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